{"id":15866,"date":"2020-02-26T20:09:20","date_gmt":"2020-02-26T13:09:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/amonous.com\/?p=15866"},"modified":"2020-02-26T20:09:20","modified_gmt":"2020-02-26T13:09:20","slug":"nen-chon-nganh-hoc-theo-dam-me-hay-theo-y-bo-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amonous.com\/nen-chon-nganh-hoc-theo-dam-me-hay-theo-y-bo-me\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00ean ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc theo \u0111am m\u00ea hay theo \u00fd b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9?"},"content":{"rendered":"
Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ef3 thi quan tr\u1ecdng chuy\u1ec7n <\/em>ch\u1ecdn <\/em>ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1<\/a> t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a con m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00e2y tranh c\u00e3i trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u1ede r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh, cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch trao \u0111\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng cho con ngay t\u1eeb khi m\u1edbi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o b\u1eadc h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng.<\/em> Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n khi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p. V\u1eady, n\u1ebfu 2 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn th\u00ec sao? Ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc theo \u0111am m\u00ea hay theo \u00fd b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9?<\/em><\/p>\n Mong mu\u1ed1n con th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ea1t l\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n thay con \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111o\u1ea1t m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cho th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt cha m\u1eb9 can thi\u1ec7p tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con, \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a thay con v\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho con m\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi v\u00ec, h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i n\u00ean s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng con m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n C\u00f3 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec do nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0: Trong m\u1eaft c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh, con c\u00e1i lu\u00f4n b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf, kh\u1edd d\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n, v\u00ec th\u1ebf tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh thay con; cha m\u1eb9 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng v\u00e0o con \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfp \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u00f2n dang d\u1edf th\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c n\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfp k\u1ebf th\u1eeba s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; cha m\u1eb9 khi\u00a0ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai\u00a0c\u1ee7a con th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh d\u1ec5 xin vi\u1ec7c, d\u1ec5 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n, \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng xu th\u1ebf x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i…<\/p>\n Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, con v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ee5 l\u00f2ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ngoan ngo\u00e3n ch\u1ecdn tr\u01b0\u1eddng theo \u00fd b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc sau \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng theo k\u1ecbp b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n v\u00ec ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n n\u00ean b\u1ecf d\u1edf ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3, quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u00f4n luy\u1ec7n thi v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c. Cha m\u1eb9 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng mong \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t cho con m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn con tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i g\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u00ec h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 s\u1ebd th\u1eadt tai h\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. V\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kinh nghi\u1ec7m, g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00f4i khi l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c n\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i suy x\u00e9t th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1<\/a> cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u1eeb ph\u1ee5 huynh, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh tham kh\u1ea3o, c\u00f2n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u00e3y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng.<\/p>\n V\u1edbi ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00edch, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u00e1p l\u1ef1c trong vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u0111am m\u00ea \u1ea5y sinh ra n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y tr\u00ean gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng h\u01a1n trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o.<\/p>\n H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 lo l\u1eafng hay suy ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, b\u1edfi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y ng\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh\u00a0xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p\u00a0trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111am m\u00ea, h\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m trong vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m ch\u1ecdn ngh\u1ec1 theo \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u0169ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u1eeb ph\u00eda gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1eb1ng l\u00fd, b\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u1ed3ng minh h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau t\u00ecm ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i chung, \u0111\u1ec3 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh ti\u1ebfp s\u1ee9c c\u00f9ng m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n Qua nh\u1eefng chia s\u1ebb tr\u00ean, ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh g\u00ec r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ch\u1ecdn theo \u0111am m\u00ea hay \u00fd b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eefa. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng, v\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 cho c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 sao cho h\u1ecd \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n H\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc hay \u0111i xu\u1ea5t kh\u1ea9u lao \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/a>?<\/p>\n \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Ph\u00fa Xu\u00e2n: \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady!<\/a><\/p>\n Nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc “\u0111\u00e1ng h\u1ecdc” \u1edf Hu\u1ebf<\/a><\/p>\n Tuy\u1ec3n sinh \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc n\u0103m 2020<\/a><\/p>\n <\/p>\n\n 1. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn <\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
2. H\u00e3y m\u1ea1nh d\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111am m\u00ea<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
3. H\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i trong vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ecdn ng\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n
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